In a time where it feels like you need to post selfies to increase your likelihood of finding love, here's a guide to being yourself without feeling like you're spreading yourself too thin.


You have to enjoy yourself.

Sure, this is obvious, but if you're not having a good time when you're with a guy or girl, you're not going to want to be around them long-term. Attending a party does not make you the life of the party—too often people put themselves out there without realizing that they're really just putting their friends out there. Plus, people do not want to be around a sour pill. Finding someone to go on a double date with is a lot more fun than having a single date.

Do your best to bring some lightheartedness to a relationship that's happening in the midst of stress and sadness. Be careful about getting too personal, though; people like to avoid confrontation if they can help it. Trying to be too open about your feelings can come off as being too needy.

Since you're a woman, you're probably worrying more about your appearance than your man.

This may seem cliché, but you can wear less makeup, stay off your cell phone and get to know the guy without having to primp up your outfit for him. If he's not showing you his appreciation, you can do more than he can for you in the name of appreciating him and you won't feel guilty.


If you're cute, you can let your guy do the talking.

Sure, there are some things you just can't ignore, like snoring or weird penmanship, but there are things you can do if you want to get more attention from someone. If a person likes you, they're going to tell you. You don't have to kiss his ass or ask for special treatment to get them to like you; simply accept it when they tell you they like you because they do. Your guy doesn't have to be the biggest fan of you, but he does have to be a fan.


Know when it's time to move on.

After a few dates, you will know if you are seriously falling for someone. If you like the person and they're a good fit, and you're having a good time, you don't have to worry if you're going to move in together or move on. If you feel the person is a bad fit, you should feel comfortable calling it quits. https://russianwifedating.com/pros-and-cons-of-russian-hookups-get-laid-with-a-moscow-girl.html
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**CANDY, BEER, AND CATS: BEING OLD-SCHOOL AT THE DATING CON.**

_Back in my 20s and early 30s, I was pretty active and slept in a whack-a-doodle bed—sometimes with my cats. Now I am getting up around 6 a.m., drinking coffee, doing Pilates, and scheduling last night's date._

_—Amanda, 25_

**KNOW WHEN TO SAY GOODBYE.**

_You'll have to tell me if I'm rude or annoying, and I'll have to tell you that I'm not looking for a wife. I expect the same in return. I've known guys who kept me waiting for hours and then wouldn't come if I didn't pick them up at their favorite bar. I'm also not interested in a fiancé. I have this growing-older buddy. He says we know each other "well enough" to make a commitment, but he's not sure yet and I'm not jumping to conclusions._

_—Jay, 33_

**MEET ONLINE BEFORE YOU MEET IN PERSON.**

_When I started going on dates with Mr. Right, I would hear from him all the time online. He said he was tired of going on dates with boring women who didn't share his interests. He couldn't bear it. I'm more likely to get an email from someone I've never met than a knock on my door or a phone call. I think there's a lot of money being spent on those matchmaking services. I think of it as a savings plan._

_—Annalise, 39_

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